Has anyone been here before? I’ve often been left so drained trying to force things that just don’t fit. One day we wake up and be like enough is just enough.
I’ve said before that no one is exempt from being cut off. I do mean no one. If you disturb my peace, you gotta go!
I truly value everyone I’m close to in my life and I tend to be oblivious to the things they do at times. It can some times take me years to walk away and that’s so much time wasted. I’m learning and I’m trying to do better.
I’ve reached a place in my life where I’m just tired. I haven’t been around anything that I know means me no good. I’ve prayed for this and I’m finally there. I’m never rude, that’s just not me but I do keep my distance.
I don’t think people understand that everything they say about you will eventually come back to you. People I’ve been close to for years, I’ve heard the comments they’ve made and my feet didn’t move fast enough. You’re not good for my mental health, you gotta go!
This coronavirus isn’t good for my mental health. It needs to go! I’ve been praying for those of us that suffer from anxiety and any other mental disorder. It’s a very hard time and I know it’s hard to say don’t worry. Just know this too shall pass!
All family isn’t family. Always remember that.
To the family member that said I’m just having kids. Let me let you know one thing first, IM MARRIED! I have BUSINESSES* that take care of my kids. I WORK my ass off! MY HUSBAND* works hard! We take care of our own and no one can say I’ve relied on them for anything but guess what YOU GOTTA GO BABY!
To the family member that frowns upon my success. YOU GOTTA GO!
To the family member that doesn’t know how to clap. You gotta go!
Parents, cousins, aunts, uncles, siblings, if you fit, YOU GOTTA GO! We tend to make up when we don’t know. Yes I’m private but if you ask I’ll let you know and even put you on.
Relationships are not suppose to hurt! Always remember that ladies. We tend to walk mentally before our feet actually move. If it is affecting you, it isn’t for you. It isn’t good for your mental health, it has to go!
To the cheater? Goodbye!
To the abuser? Good day!
To the liar? You gotta go you aren’t welcomed here!
We tend to put up with too much from these men. You aren’t good for my mental health, baby you gotta go!
Friendships! This is my favorite topic. I’ve had problems with friends all my life, to the point where I felt like I was just the problem. I’m way too loyal and everything hurts my feelings. I’ve had the same best friend all my life and I tend to look for her in others and forget that no too people are the same. Sounds like I’m not good for my mental health either. Lol! I tend to hold on to friendships I should have been let go of.
To the friend that told her other friends my business. Yes I know, I heard. You’re not good for my mental health, you gotta go!
To the friend that lied on me to make herself look good. You’re not good for my mental health. You gotta go!
To the friend that gathers with her friends that dislike me just to discuss me. You’re not good for my mental health you gotta go.
To the friend that tried to come between my husband and I. Haha! Yeah girl you, yes I know about it. You’re not good for my mental health you gotta go!
So if I’m acting strange and distant, just know I know what you’ve done. I’ve heard all the things you’ve said, and not you’re not good for me so guess what? Yup you guessed it. You gotta go!
Everyone can’t walk into every season of your life with you. That’s ok! Keep moving forward baby girl, what’s for you is for you. Who’s for you will be there and those that aren’t you will watch them disappear. But keep pushing don’t stop!